Q: I’m not trying to be rude and a “tackhead” as you put it but how do I tell people that I want cash? We didn’t register so I figured they’d get the hint but when people ask “where are you registered?” what am I supposed to say?

A: I’m not going to get all etiquette [...]

Q: I was thinking of having a pot luck wedding reception. Would it be ok to put that on my wedding invites? Heck, is it even ok to have a pot luck reception?
A: Well, that’s tricky. If you are just having more of a “celebration gathering” than a reception then I don’t see anything wrong [...]

Q: We are having our wedding in the afternoon around 2PM. The reception spot that we want won’t be available until 7PM. It’s about 30 minutes away from the wedding so the drive won’t be too long. Do you think this would be ok?
A: No, I don’t think it’s ok. What are people going to [...]

Q: How long should we give people to RSVP. I keep getting different answers.
A: It depends on who you ask but let me start by saying be prepared for people NOT to respond either way. Some people think that you only RSVP if you are coming, some people don’t think it’s important to RSVP either [...]