Q: My sister in law hasn’t asked me to be in her wedding but my mother in law told me that I’m in it. I don’t want to be a bridesmaid for a variety of reasons (the cost,
we aren’t that close, my age, and who is going to watch my children if both me and [...]

Q: I think my future mother in law hates me. It’s just a feeling I get. I didn’t do anything to her. Maybe she thinks I’m not good enough for her son, I don’t know. What should I do?
A: That’s an interesting question as usually it’s the other way around. My first instinct says that [...]

Q: I don’t want my fiance to have a bachelors party. I want to tell him but I don’t want to be accused of trying to ruin his fun. I also don’t want all his friends to call me insecure. What should I do?
A: Before I answer this, please keep in mind that I can [...]

Q: How do I tell someone that I don’t like the wedding gear they picked out? It’s not for me, it’s for my husband and we both think the tuxes stink.
A: You don’t.
It’s not your wedding so your opinion really doesn’t matter. Sorry. Bridesmaids dresses are another thing, especially if you have to pay for [...]