Q: How do I tell someone that I don’t like the wedding gear they picked out? It’s not for me, it’s for my husband and we both think the tuxes stink.
A: You don’t.
It’s not your wedding so your opinion really doesn’t matter. Sorry. Bridesmaids dresses are another thing, especially if you have to pay for [...]

Q: I’m not trying to be rude and a “tackhead” as you put it but how do I tell people that I want cash? We didn’t register so I figured they’d get the hint but when people ask “where are you registered?” what am I supposed to say?
A: I’m not going to get all etiquette [...]

Q: I was thinking of having a pot luck wedding reception. Would it be ok to put that on my wedding invites? Heck, is it even ok to have a pot luck reception?
A: Well, that’s tricky. If you are just having more of a “celebration gathering” than a reception then I don’t see anything wrong [...]

Q: We are having our wedding in the afternoon around 2PM. The reception spot that we want won’t be available until 7PM. It’s about 30 minutes away from the wedding so the drive won’t be too long. Do you think this would be ok?
A: No, I don’t think it’s ok. What are people going to [...]