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Avoiding the Post-Wedding Blues

Posted by Diva on April 25th, 2009

Projects are fun and can give you so much excitement and energy. For some people, planning a wedding becomes one big project that can last for a year or more.

Some even take it to the extreme of having no outside life until their wedding is planned.

Sadly, those women are setting themselves up for a round of post-wedding blues.

When the wedding is done and over you are left with a big feeling of “now what?”, especially if you’ve only been wedding focused.

Here are some tips for avoiding a big letdown after your big day.

Focus on your marriage before and after the wedding. The wedding is only the tip of the iceberg, you have the rest of your life with this person to plan.

Have hobbies and take time to enjoy them. Don’t spend your whole pre-wedding life focused on your wedding. Have a hobby- crafting, writing, sports, volunteering- and make time for it, both before and after your wedding.

Have realistic expectations. Your wedding will be great, but it won’t be the best day of your life. Perhaps the best day up until that point, but life is pretty depressing if you think the best has already past.



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April 27th, 2009 at 5:41 am

Marriages we regard as the happiest are those in which each of the partners believes that he or she has got the best of it! Furthermore, God gave us two ears to hear, two eyes to see and two hands to hold. But why did God give us only one heart? Because he wants us to find the other one. Avoid those Post-Wedding Blues!!!

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April 27th, 2009 at 5:50 am

If you agree that the most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world today is a woman’s heart, then you will conquer with me that there shouldn’t be any reason for the Post-Wedding Blues to intrude in your life both after and before the wedding.

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Jacob
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April 27th, 2009 at 5:56 am

Indeed you should have realistic expectations after your marriages for its was the only way seal your complete love for each other. Remember that you are a teacher, you are helping people, making them feel safer, taking them from fear to love, from ignorance to knowledge. Discard Post-Wedding Blues completely from your mind……okay.

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May 22nd, 2009 at 11:14 am

Wedding day can be the perfect day for all couples. it will be the most exciting day. The only problem is that the day it self, can become verry stressfull as loads of things happen at the same time!

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May 26th, 2009 at 5:18 pm

Type your comment here.Unfortunately, for some, the transition from being single to married is not nearly so smooth. Today 1 in 10 brides fall prey to a condition known as Post-Nuptial Depression, which makes sufferers feel desperately low, aimless and disconnected from their newly married state. To them, life after the wedding seems mundane and meaningless with nothing to look forward to and it can be a struggle to even get out of bed. In severe cases the black cloud can linger for up to six months making for a miserable start to married life.

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June 4th, 2009 at 1:19 pm

I can not wait to get married wedding blues i hope i don’t have any of them, i don’t think i will really, ill probable be to excited seeing my family friends enjoying my wonderful day also getting married to that special some too.

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July 15th, 2009 at 12:34 pm

A biggest responsible job is to organise weding arrangements as its one of the most memorable and valuable ocation in life and most people are consternation on those perion of time,and some time they seems to miss out certain thinks and will be so devestate about it .
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