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He Wants it All Of The Time!
I just got married a month ago and I love my hubby very much. The thing is that we make love every night. It’s like he can’t keep his hands off of me. I’m not offended but sometimes I’m tired and I don’t want to do that every night. I love his attention and I don’t want to push him away but at the same time I can’t keep up this pace. What should I do?
When I have to say things that I find difficult I just wrap it around an extra dose of kindness. In this case I’d hug and kiss him, take him by the hand and say sweetie, “I love you so much, but tonight I’d rather cuddle. Is that ok?” That way you are still being romantic, you aren’t pushing him away, and you aren’t as likely to hurt his feelings. That’s my advice. But since I’m a newlywed myself, I’m going to pass the mic on this one to Heather of Marriage Diva.
I think that you shouldn’t push him away. If you REALLY have a health problem or are terribly tired, I think he should understand, but in general well you should be there for him.
I find it hard to believe you can’t keep up his pace. I mean every night isn’t the end of the world!
(fyi i’m a woman :p)