This question was posed on our wedding forum.

“..I ask because I dated someone that I have known for a very long time and I am thinking of inviting him to my wedding. We were friends before we dated, and are still cool with each other now.”

I’m a rather salty person so no, I wouldn’t do it . If we were friends or not it wouldn’t matter, I wouldn’t want that type of energy in my space. A wedding is about building a new life, not dragging up the old one.

Besides, as another poster pointed out, how would I feel if the groom were to invite an ex? I wouldn’t like it at all.

Invite the people you are closest to…not the people you’ve been close to…if you get my drift.

That’s just my opinion, how do you feel?

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