I said I wasn’t going to talk about this anymore but what the heck.The wedding was on. Then it was off. Then it happened in a lawyers office. Then they decided to celebrate and have a ceremony. I’ll try to keep my snide comments to myself because Usher and Tameka look very happy. Essence has [...]

Q: How do you avoid wedding stress?
A: I don’t know because I haven’t done a very good job of it. I thought I’d beat the stress by keeping things very simple; but even the simple can be complex. I suppose the answer to the question depends on why you are stressed. Is it budget [...]

Now that the day is growing closer I’ve found myself wondering what to do about vows.
I wrote the vows for both of us and I had it set in my mind that we’d simply read them once the time came. “Isn’t that odd? Are you going to have a big piece of paper sticking up” [...]